I never think, what I'm actually write for 'married' 'husband and wife' still sounds weird in my ear. But, in the third semester of reading course, I believe it is allowed to write this kinda essay, specially for boys.
Hei, now, you are THE MAN! Not a boy in a family, but a man with a family . Not a boy who thinking how to ride motorcycle amazingly, but a man who thinking how to be a amazing husband. So do you want to be a great husband? Let’s see these tips.
Be a Leader : It doesn’t mean that you can ask anything to your family. It means you are the responsible one to keep your family and direct them into a goodness, you will not doing it alone. But at home, you are the leader, be firm but also friendly. Lead your wife to be a good wife and lead your children to do their best.
Make the time for “togetherness” : In your busyness, spare your time to doing something together with your family. Have a breakfast together, watch movie together, pray together or even playing together in a holiday.
Keep Sharing : Not only about feelings but also about obligation. You may share your feelings or your difficulty to your wife but after that, you also listen her feelings or even her daily story. And about obligation (because a house stuff is family responsible) you can share it each other with your wife and children, for example to make a task list who will cleaning house, washing dishes, prepare dinner, clean the backyard, share it each other! So your family can be a good team at home.
Do not over : When you are being a husband do not over protective to your wife or your children, or even do not over kind (it means do not let your wife doing everything easily as she want, you also need to direct her). Just relax as usual and let it flow..
Understand : Sometimes, a wife always have their own body language, so you need to keep attention to detail to understand wheather she like someting or does not.
Do the small thing but important : As a husband you allowed to be more busy outside, but do not forget to make a “magic” touch at your home. Do small thing but important, like make a surprise, praise your wife, joking with her or your children, remembering the important time (birthday, anniversary).
Be a Hero : At home, you are the hero! Not for fighting with gangster, but to make your family feel fun and comfortable at home, to make them feel save, be their inspiration and make them proud of you.
Finally, to be a good husband is not how to make a perfect home.But it is about how doing your best with your own way to make your family feel “at home”